Wedding wishlist: Three toasters? Not at your wedding.
Your guests want to give the right thing and don’t dare to ask. One link answers the question for them.
This is how your guests see your list – no app, no sign-up.
Lena & Tim’s wedding
Shared via a secret link
Espresso machine
$249.00
Honeymoon fund
$50.00
Linen bedding
$129.00
The Wish List · try it out
Three steps, no preparation
Create wishlist
Type in your email address, and the list is there right away – no waiting for an email. The name “Our wedding wishes” is already filled in, and you can change it anytime.
Collect wishes
Copy the link from the store and paste it. Name, image and price are added on their own. On your phone, you can also do this right from “Share”.
Share the link
Send the link to everyone, by message or as a QR code. Whatever someone reserves is off the list for the others. They don’t see who it was.
What fits on a list like this
Just a few ideas. Add them with a store link or simply as text.
- Contribution to the honeymoon
- Espresso machine
- A good knife set
- Linen bedding
- Dinner at your favorite restaurant
- Trees for your future garden
A store registry means trips to the store and ties you to one catalog. A list of your own can hold anything: the espresso machine from the specialty shop, a contribution to the honeymoon, an olive tree sponsorship. You add what you really need and put the link in the invitation. Whoever reserves something takes it off the table for everyone else – without anyone having to ask you, and without you returning five vases the day after.
Common questions: Wedding
- Is it rude to have a wedding registry?
- Not at all – it’s expected, and most guests are relieved not to guess. What matters is where it goes: traditionally not on the invitation itself, but on your wedding website or a small insert card. A friendly line is enough, like “If you’d like to celebrate with a gift, a few ideas are here.”
- How much do guests usually spend on a wedding gift?
- There’s no fixed rule. As a rough guide, coworkers and acquaintances often give $50 to $75, friends $75 to $150, and close family more. A good registry offers wishes at several price points, from a kitchen tool to a share of the honeymoon.
- Can you ask for cash or a honeymoon fund?
- Yes, and it’s increasingly common. It reads more naturally when the money has a purpose, like “Honeymoon fund” or “Toward a new dining table”. A wish like that can be given more than once, so many guests can chip in. A wish doesn’t have to be a thing: honeymoon funds and experiences like “Two nights in Lisbon” are perfectly normal entries, with an amount if you want to name one.
- When should the registry be ready?
- By the time save-the-dates go out, or at the latest with the invitations, usually six to eight weeks before the wedding. Shower guests often shop from it even earlier.
Can the two of us manage the list together?
Yes. Both of you sign in with the same email address, and you work in the same list. Whoever has their phone in hand adds the next wish.
Can our guests see who reserved what?
No. Guests only see whether a wish is still available. What someone gives stays their business until you unwrap it.
How does the link get into the invitation?
Copy it, or get it as a QR code. The link fits on your wedding website, the QR code on the card, in the ceremony program or on the place card – snapping a photo of it is enough.
What happens to the list after the wedding?
It stays as long as you want to keep it. You can delete it at any time or replace the link so the old address leads nowhere.
Start “Our wedding wishes” right now.
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