Confirmation wishlist: Gifts that fit who you are
Your relatives want to give you something good and only roughly know your taste. The link solves that.
This is how your guests see your list – no app, no sign-up.
Jonah’s confirmation
Shared via a secret link
First car fund
$100.00
Backpack, 20 liters
$69.00
Wireless headphones
$89.00
The Wish List · try it out
Three steps, no preparation
Create wishlist
Type in your email address, and the list is there right away – no waiting for an email. The name “My confirmation wishes” is already filled in, and you can change it anytime.
Collect wishes
Copy the link from the store and paste it. Name, image and price are added on their own. On your phone, you can also do this right from “Share”.
Share the link
Send the link to everyone, by message or as a QR code. Whatever someone reserves is off the list for the others. They don’t see who it was.
What fits on a list like this
Just a few ideas. Add them with a store link or simply as text.
- Driving lessons
- Noise-canceling headphones
- Travel backpack
- Contribution to a summer trip
- A first watch of your own
- Record store gift card
Lots of guests come to a confirmation, and most of them know you as you were five years ago. A wishlist is the polite version of saying it straight: you write down what really matters to you – from your first good pair of headphones to driver’s ed – and whoever gives a gift picks from it. What someone reserves is gone for everyone else, and you don’t get the same thing four times.
Common questions: Confirmation
- How much do people give for a confirmation?
- Family friends and relatives often give $25 to $50. Godparents and sponsors usually give more, often $50 to $100 or a lasting keepsake. A list with wishes at several price points lets everyone find something that fits.
- What does a confirmation sponsor traditionally give?
- Something that lasts: a cross, a rosary, a Bible with a written note, or a piece of jewelry. Many sponsors add a card with money toward something the teen is saving for.
- Is money an appropriate confirmation gift?
- Yes. Cash or a check in a card is one of the most common confirmation gifts. Tying it to a goal – a trip, a laptop, college savings – makes it feel personal rather than transactional.
Is a confirmation wishlist appropriate?
Your guests ask anyway – usually your parents. A link is a friendlier answer than passing the question along, and nobody is obliged to pick something from the list.
How do I put money or a big wish on the list?
Write it as a wish, for example “Contribution to my summer trip”, with an amount. Turn on “Can be given more than once”, and several guests can chip in toward it.
Can my guests see who took what?
No. They only see whether a wish is still available. Anyone who leaves a name shares it only with you.
How does the link reach relatives without a smartphone?
As a QR code on the invitation or as an address to type in. Nobody has to sign up or install anything to reserve.
Can my parents help manage my confirmation list?
Yes, if you sign in with the same email address. Then you both see the same list.
Start “My confirmation wishes” right now.
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